When you begin trusting the next chapter because you know the author, there's a sense of relief. A relief of feeling like you have control over yourself, over your actions, thoughts, emotions, feelings... there will be days you feel like you've lost control, but that only means bigger and better things are coming. Now when I say "control" that doesn't mean controlling things, or people, or situations... it means yourself. Sometimes people feel the need to be in control of EVERYTHING. But thats impossible and completely unhealthy. The only thing you should be in control of is yourself. There are times and places to have control over other things: work, kids, etc. But, sometimes you have to step back and remember, there are things out of your control; and that it life. Having control over yourself, and yourself alone, makes for a much happier you... which ultimately makes for a much happier life for your partner, kids, or family.
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